June 19, 2013

Lessons I Learned From My Father

I am the daughter of an entrepreneur. My dad was born in 1908 in a small Vermont town near Burlington. By the time he was 16 he had $1,000 in his bank account, an unheard of sum of money for a teenager in those days. I guess you could say my father had a strong work ethic. Although he did not go to college, he was a very smart man and after he graduated from high school he worked at a large dairy farm, becoming a manager within a few years. Eventually, he ventured out on his own by purchasing a small farm in northern Vermont where I was born.

Dad gave up farming when I was six to become an independent insurance agent and we bought a big Victorian house on Main Street in the village so that his office would have high visibility.  At the time I was heartbroken and missed life on the farm, but soon learned that the fast-paced village life could have its advantages, especially as I grew older.

Dad opened his insurance agency in 1960 and his business grew steadily. I remember feeling that he must have known EVERYONE in town, as there seemed to be a steady stream of customers walking through the door. Every morning Dad drove to a local restaurant for coffee and toast. He bypassed the booths that I would have chosen to sit in his favorite spot at the counter, enjoying small talk with everyone who walked past.

At the time, I don’t think I appreciated my Dad’s entrepreneurship.  Heck, he didn’t even have LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter or a website.  Despite that, I can truly say that I have learned a great deal about business, customer service and the importance of hard work.

  • WORK FIRST, PLAY LATER. My first job was working in Dad’s office where I learned the fine art of customer service. I filed, answered the phone, greeted customers and watched my dad work. His work ethic was very strong and his clients were very important to him — sometimes at the expense of family time. Being self employed takes an enormous amount of time. I try to remember to keep balance in my life — not always successfully, I’m afraid.
  • SPEND WISELY, SAVE.  Maybe it was a result of surviving the Great Depression, or maybe a bit of being a Vermont Yankee, but Dad was a bit of a penny pincher.  What amazed me was that he kept a ledger of every expense he made for business and our household.  He never missed a day of recording in this large black book.  I still have trouble finding time to balance my bank account, but I try to spend wisely.
  • GIVE BACK QUIETLY.  Dad was a Rotarian, an usher and administrative board member of our church, volunteered for town offices and looked out for neighbors.  I do enjoy volunteering and getting to know people involved in the community.

Dad died in 1994 and I never got a chance to tell him how much he meant to me. I hope he knows.

How To Sell Your Own Home – DIY Workshop

Do you remember the first time you rode a bike?  How about the first time you drove your parent’s car alone?  Do you remember how you felt the day you started your first job, opened your first business or learned how to change the oil in your car (well, maybe that’s something you haven’t tried yet). In a short while you mastered the new task, become comfortable with your new surroundings and couldn’t imagine life before your new found expertise.

Life is a series of firsts.  For most of the occasions I’ve mentioned the fear of trying something new was lessened because of support received from parents, family and friends.

For many, the thought of selling their own home is daunting.  After all, real estate agents have told you for years that selling a home is very complicated and much too hard for anyone but a PROFESSIONAL to handle.  The NAR (National Association of Realtors) has spent millions of dollars over the years arming agents with information on how to handle “those pesky FSBOs”, training them on talking points, providing point of sale information designed to worry you.  It’s not a wonder that you have felt a bit uncomfortable with the thought of selling “by owner”.

It doesn’t have to be this way.  Come join us on Saturday, August 13, 2011 at EcoBuilding Bargains in Springfield, Massachusetts to get the information YOU NEED to sell your own home.  I have given FSBO home seller seminars throughout Western Mass for many years as the owner of Massachusetts 4 Sale By Owner.  Find out more on MA4salebyowner.com or call 413-788-6900 to register for this FREE event.  Seating is limited, so be sure to reserve your seat early as we expect a full house.